Taylor Swift has been linked to over a dozen famous men in the last few years. Some she’s written songs about, while others are expected to show up in sing-along form on future projects. However, many of Swift’s rumored boyfriends are just that… rumors. It’s time, once and for all, to determine who Taylor Swift dated and who was “just a friend.”

The ‘We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together’ singer does keep a lot of male friends that never become boyfriends, or even one-time dates. Plus, she’s not afraid to step in front of the cameras with a new man — even just for dinner, even if nothing else happens afterward.

Click through this list to get the scoop on who Taylor Swift did — and didn’t — date.