How many times have you had a friend say to you or you say to them, "if you ever need anything or if I can help in any way, just give me a call"? You hear this all the time if you are going through something in life. Now how many times have you taken someone up on it or had them ask you for the help you offered? I am not one who offers my help unless I mean it. My time is very valuable to me and if I offer it I really do mean it.

I have had it happen to me many times where I call on the person who has offered to help only find out they can't make it because their wife has a hemorrhoid or some other reason they can't be there for you. Be true to your word and make it mean something. Only say what you really mean. Hollow offers show your real character. Be a solid human and do what you say you will do.